Postpartum Doula in San Francisco East Bay Area & South Bay Area
XOXO DOULA FOR ALL FAMILIES
The first 12 weeks with your baby can feel overwhelming and magical. You don’t have to do it alone.
I'm Lisamaria Martinez,
Your experienced postpartum doula based in Union City, CA. I help new parents feel rested, confident, and cared for during one of life’s most intense transitions. Whether you’re a first-time parent, part of a non-traditional family, or just need an extra pair of hands, I’m here to help your family thrive.
Trusted by families across the Bay Area - Building your village, one family at a time.
Jamie C.
"I had no idea what postpartum depression and anxiety would do to me though. LM came to my rescue in so many ways... She knew what I needed, even before I did."
Mike and Allison M.
"Working with LM was the BEST decision we made as new parents! She was an absolute lifesaver during those first few weeks."
Glorivette O.
"Having Lisamaria watching my son while I rested allowed me to actually rest knowing he was in amazing hands. Her breath of knowledge and experience was beyond helpful."
Jamie C.
"I had no idea what postpartum depression and anxiety would do to me though. LM came to my rescue in so many ways... She knew what I needed, even before I did."
Mike and Allison M.
"Working with LM was the BEST decision we made as new parents! She was an absolute lifesaver during those first few weeks."
Glorivette O.
Having Lisamaria watching my son while I rested allowed me to actually rest knowing he was in amazing hands. Her breath of knowledge and experience was beyond helpful.
Jamie C.
"I had no idea what postpartum depression and anxiety would do to me though. LM came to my rescue in so many ways... She knew what I needed, even before I did."
Mike and Allison M.
"Working with LM was the BEST decision we made as new parents! She was an absolute lifesaver during those first few weeks."
Glorivette O.
Having Lisamaria watching my son while I rested allowed me to actually rest knowing he was in amazing hands. Her breath of knowledge and experience was beyond helpful.
Why Choose XOXO Doula? Because You Deserve Support That Truly Sees You.
MY STORY
I've been caring for babies since childhood, helping my mom with her home daycare. As a mom of 3 incredible humans with 30 years of parenting experience, I quickly learned I was a natural at caring for babies and had a soft spot in my heart for little ones. When friends and acquaintances started coming to me for advice, providing support became as natural as breathing.
WHAT MAKES ME DIFFERENT:
I specialize in supporting ALL families - whether you're adopting, part of the LGBTQ+ community, polyamorous, have disabilities, or face any barriers to becoming parents. As someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community and the disability community myself, I understand the unique challenges and am deeply rooted in sectors of life that often face barriers to becoming parents.
I lead with love, kindness, consent, respect & laughter because your journey deserves nothing less.
MY CREDENTIALS:
- M.A. in Educational Psychology (2006)
- DONA Certified Postpartum Doula (2024)
- ProDoula Certified Postpartum Doula (2024)
- 30 years of hands-on parenting experience
- Specialized training in supporting diverse families
VALUES STATEMENT:
Every family - traditional, LGBTQ+, polyamorous, adoptive, families with disabilities - deserves expert, compassionate postpartum support. I'm here to ensure you get exactly that.
Feel Confident, Cared For, and Rested
POSTPARTUM & NEWBORN DOULA SERVICES
Every family is different. That’s why I offer customizable care designed to meet your unique needs day or night, in-person (East Bay and South Bay Area) or virtual (Nationwide).
VIRTUAL & IN-PERSON OPTIONS AVAILABLE
Immediate Postpartum Care
Hospital support right after baby arrives
Newborn care education (bathing, sleep, soothing, diapering)
Best baby equipment recommendations for your family
Emotional support for all caregivers
Overnight Support
Nighttime assistance for restorative sleep
Feeding support (breast and bottle)
Gentle sleep training guidance
Peace of mind while you rest
Daily Care & Education
Baby wearing guidance and hands-on teaching
Sibling adjustment support
Parent coaching through baby's first year
Light meal prep and cleaning
Feel Confident, Cared For, and Rested
POSTPARTUM & NEWBORN DOULA SERVICES
Every family is different. That’s why I offer customizable care designed to meet your unique needs day or night, in-person (East Bay and South Bay area) or virtual (Nationwide).
VIRTUAL & IN-PERSON OPTIONS AVAILABLE
Special Focus Areas
Many families do not realize that postpartum care begins before the baby comes along. I specialize in supporting families who often don't see themselves represented elsewhere.
Special Focus Areas
Many families do not realize that postpartum care begins before the baby comes along. I specialize in supporting families who often don't see themselves represented elsewhere.
Special Focus Areas
Many families do not realize that postpartum care begins before the baby comes along. I specialize in supporting families who often don't see themselves represented elsewhere.
“Having Lisamaria as our doula was the best decision we made.” - Glorivette O.
FREE DOWNLOAD:
"The 4th Trimester Survival Guide"
Essential tips for those crucial first 12 weeks - from sleep strategies to emotional wellness.
Glorivette O.
"Please don't judge a book by its cover. Having Lisamaria as my doula was absolutely the best decision we made... That no sleep zombie life really messes you up. Having Lisamaria watching my son while I rested allowed me to actually rest knowing he was in amazing hands. Her breath of knowledge and experience was beyond helpful. She taught me tips and tricks that no class or YouTube video taught me."
Jamie C.
"When I was pregnant with my first baby, I thought I was ready for anything. I had no idea what postpartum depression and anxiety would do to me though. LM came to my rescue in so many ways... She knew what I needed, even before I did. LM was such a gift to our family."
Mike and Allison M.
"Working with LM was the BEST decision we made as new parents! She was an absolute lifesaver during those first few weeks... She was a calming presence during a time that felt really chaotic, and always knew how to offer encouragement and reassurance. Honestly, we can't recommend her services enough."
Glorivette O.
"Please don't judge a book by its cover. Having Lisamaria as my doula was absolutely the best decision we made... That no sleep zombie life really messes you up. Having Lisamaria watching my son while I rested allowed me to actually rest knowing he was in amazing hands. Her breath of knowledge and experience was beyond helpful. She taught me tips and tricks that no class or YouTube video taught me."
Jamie C.
"When I was pregnant with my first baby, I thought I was ready for anything. I had no idea what postpartum depression and anxiety would do to me though. LM came to my rescue in so many ways... She knew what I needed, even before I did. LM was such a gift to our family."
Mike and Allison M.
"Working with LM was the BEST decision we made as new parents! She was an absolute lifesaver during those first few weeks... She was a calming presence during a time that felt really chaotic, and always knew how to offer encouragement and reassurance. Honestly, we can't recommend her services enough."
Glorivette O.
"Please don't judge a book by its cover. Having Lisamaria as my doula was absolutely the best decision we made... That no sleep zombie life really messes you up. Having Lisamaria watching my son while I rested allowed me to actually rest knowing he was in amazing hands. Her breath of knowledge and experience was beyond helpful. She taught me tips and tricks that no class or YouTube video taught me."
Jamie C.
"When I was pregnant with my first baby, I thought I was ready for anything. I had no idea what postpartum depression and anxiety would do to me though. LM came to my rescue in so many ways... She knew what I needed, even before I did. LM was such a gift to our family."
Mike and Allison M.
"Working with LM was the BEST decision we made as new parents! She was an absolute lifesaver during those first few weeks... She was a calming presence during a time that felt really chaotic, and always knew how to offer encouragement and reassurance. Honestly, we can't recommend her services enough."
Glorivette O.
"Please don't judge a book by its cover. Having Lisamaria as my doula was absolutely the best decision we made... That no sleep zombie life really messes you up. Having Lisamaria watching my son while I rested allowed me to actually rest knowing he was in amazing hands. Her breath of knowledge and experience was beyond helpful. She taught me tips and tricks that no class or YouTube video taught me."
Jamie C.
"When I was pregnant with my first baby, I thought I was ready for anything. I had no idea what postpartum depression and anxiety would do to me though. LM came to my rescue in so many ways... She knew what I needed, even before I did. LM was such a gift to our family."
Mike and Allison M.
"Working with LM was the BEST decision we made as new parents! She was an absolute lifesaver during those first few weeks... She was a calming presence during a time that felt really chaotic, and always knew how to offer encouragement and reassurance. Honestly, we can't recommend her services enough."
Frequently Asked Questions
I provide in-person support across the San Francisco East Bay and South Bay Area — including Union City, Fremont, Oakland, San Jose, Hayward, and beyond. I also work virtually with families across the U.S.
I specialize in supporting ALL families, especially those who often face barriers to becoming parents. As someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community, I bring lived experience and deep understanding to families who may feel overlooked by traditional services.
Absolutely! I specialize in LGBTQ+ families, polyamorous families, single parents, adoptive families, and families with disabilities. Your family structure doesn't matter - your need for support does.
Yes! I accept Carrot insurance, and I also offer sliding scale pricing to ensure every family can access the support they need.
Life with a newborn is unpredictable! I offer flexible scheduling and understand that plans change. We'll work together to find solutions that work for your family.
I recommend booking during your third trimester, as I only take on a limited number of families each month to ensure quality care.
Free Resources for Your Journey
HELPFUL ARTICLES:
Preparing Your Partner for the 4th Trimester
Creating an Inclusive Birth Plan
Building Your Village: Who to Include in Your Support Network
TRUSTED PARTNER NETWORK:
LGBTQ+-friendly pediatricians
Lactation consultants who understand diverse families
Mental health professionals specializing in postpartum care
Building Your Village
Community support and that village we all speak about is needed more than ever in 2024. Parents today are definitely stressed out, and adding one new support person - like a postpartum doula - to your circle can make all the difference.
MY COMMITMENT TO YOU:
LGBTQ+ affirming care
Accessibility-focused support
Polyamory-friendly services
Culturally sensitive approach
Strength-based family support
I'm ready and willing to be part of your village and excited to help your family thrive.
Ready to Transform Your 4th Trimester?
You deserve care, not just survival. Let’s build your village, one loving step at a time.
100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEE ON YOUR CONSULTATION
XOXO, Lisamaria Martinez
The Doula for All Families